Back again….

Well, here I am. Back to the place that gave me comfort and solace the last time I felt alone. How lovely it is to have a place that is even better than a best friend. Why is this better? My blog can’t yell back at me! Sure, all of you who read it can, but not directly at me in person.  You can yell at the computer screen all you want, but that only… Continue Reading

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BITCH……..

I don’t have an illness or a disease….. I HAVE A CONDITION!!!!! Thanks. Management.   Related posts: A piece… Quite a Show……. YOU WIN!!!!!!!!!! The Social Idiot Emotions cause our body pain?

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A SERIOUS ISSUE!! STOP VIOLENCE AND HATE CRIMES

As most of you know, my younger sister (Sister Hot Mess) is 17 years old and has Alopecia. (At the time of this post, she was 17.  Yesterday, New Years Day 2014, she turned 23) Alopecia aereata is a genetic autoimmune disease for which there is no known cure, YET! This type of disease does not only affect adults, but children. Boys and girls, this disease doesn’t discriminate! She has had it since she was… Continue Reading

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Dear Higher Power…..

I have always questioned if you exist or not. Lately, I have been thinking that you do. Not only do you exist, but you have been punishing me for every wrong decisions I have made in my entire life and throwing them back at me like big gigantic mudballs. And you know what….. I accept it. I can handle it. I have been able to keep picking myself up and  getting stronger. You keep throwing… Continue Reading

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How the Hot Mess blog came to be

August 4, 2008 Soooo… today I experienced something so rare, but commendable, on the CTA today. A man got up from his seat when he saw a pregnant woman standing. KUDOS to him! There are still some gentlemen alive! Second. A man in the elevator asked me how a girl so tiny could carry so many bags. I nearly jumped for joy. How did he know that my weight gain last week from starting new… Continue Reading

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Another Chapter of Public Transit Woes……

Oh boy. So, as these events were taking place, I had the blog all written out in my head. But, then…..there was an unpredictable turn of events. One that I did not see coming (as I was sitting behind the event and could not see people faces or expressions) So…. this little tale may be a bit rocky just because I am a little shocked and surprised at the results but yet, makes this story… Continue Reading

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A piece…

The quote in my daily newsletter is “Peace is every step” -Thich Nhat Hanh. Seriously….where can I find me some of that? Because lately, every step has been more like thunder and lightning!!!! If someone can please let me know where I can find this thing they call Peace, I would be very appreciative. Thanks. Management.   Related posts: Ahh yes. I forgot. I’m Really A Doormat!!!! As The Bipolar Hot Mess Preps to Become… Continue Reading

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Einstein had it right….

When he said “Don’t clutter your mind with junk you don’t need” When you clear your head of all that useless information you learned in school, and take out all the crap that you worry about that you can’t control, remove the terrible memories that do nothing but torment you, your head should be light and breezy. Copyright secured by Digiprove © 2013  Related posts: How do you rise after the “Big Crash”? Quite a Show……. The Social Idiot A… Continue Reading

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At the office…..

Today, I had a fight with the printer. And for once, I finally won. Only, it took about one hour, 2 calls and one visit to the tech department, and 3 trees. How much of our time do you think is wasted because of malfunctioning equipment that is supposed to make the task easier? Does it really, in the end, end up saving us more time and is it really more efficient then? Who knows,… Continue Reading

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Who came up with this shit…

I mean this was GENIUS!!! Do you realize how many people DAILY I wish I could give this too?!! All those girls in the club that wear spandex who CLEARLY should not. Oh my god… the list goes on. I need like a lifetime supply to hand out!!!!!!!!! UMMMMMM NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! SERIOUSLY AMERICA!!! US GIRLS ALREADY HAVE A CLEARLY DISTORTED VIEW OF BODY IMAGE, SO MUCH THAT WE STARVE OURSELVES, FORCE OURSELVES TO VOMIT, CUT OURSELVES… Continue Reading

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